Nathaniel Ford first walked into Regis Birkdale in south-east Queensland in 2001 after answering a local newspaper advertisement. At the time, the home was newly opened and looking for a mix of roles, including a musician. “I saw the ad and thought I’d give it a go,” he said. “I already loved playing music, but I didn’t know what it would be like in aged care. “He started that same week, playing flute and piano for residents across the home. What began as a few hours each week quickly became a full-time role across multiple homes that has continued now for more than 25 years.
“I used to go from room to room and spend time with each resident,” he said. “It’s those one-on-one moments where you really get to know someone,” he shares. “They would request their favourite songs and we’d have a chat. I learned every song they asked for.”
In the early years, many of the songs reflected a shared era. Frederic Weatherly’s Danny Boy and It’s a Long Way to Tipperary by John McCormack were regularly requested. Songbooks were well used and one-on-one sessions often turned into group singalongs.
While the songs most requested have changed over time, the response has stayed the same. “I know we’re having a good session when people are singing, tapping along or getting up to dance,” he said.
Nathaniel visits multiple Regis homes each week, returning regularly and building familiarity with residents across locations. “You start to get to know people, even across different places.” Nathaniel shared.
Nathaniel says his approach changes depending on the setting. “In the Memory Support Unit, it’s often about the music rather than the conversation,” he said. “You can see the recognition in different ways.”
“I’ve played for residents in palliative care as well, with their families there. Those are important moments.”
Across thousands of visits, Nathaniel’s goal has remained consistent. “I just enjoy seeing how much people get out of it,” he said. “Music brings people together.”
